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ASBURY PARK EVENING PRESS, Dec. 21, 1963 9 7 Emily Post Stag Night Sales Soaring Dizzily at Post Exchange store-type PXs' scattered across nights. FX officials explain that Europe wherever there are U.S. the presence of women in the military garrisons. i stores Inhibits men from buyinj.

The military acclaims the stag "When women are around, sol-shonoini sessions as "the craiiest diers tend to be shy and to I 'choke up' in their shopping." the II By MARGARET ANDERSON Women's News Service FRANKFURT. Germany The U.S military forces have instituted stag Christmas shopping nights at post exchanges throughout Europe. On these evenings, save for salesgirls, only males are allowed inside the big department Today's By Alfred You have lo start early to keep the dangerous opponent out of the lead, The first trick is not a bit too early. West opened the king of diamonds, and South won at once with the ace. This was a mistake.

If West subsequently gained the lead he could boldy lead the ten of diamonds instead of the queen, and East could overtake with the jack. For this reason it wasn't safe for South to lose a trump trick. He tried to draw the trumps by taking the king and ace, but th trumps failed to drop. When South then tried to run the clubs, East HOSPITAL VOLUNTEERS Mrs. Harry B.

Gale, head nurse at Community Memoriaf Hospital, Toms River, and H. David Dowgin, chairman of the Ocean County Red Cross Chapter, present certificates and caps to Joan Parkinson (left) and Alice Phipps, who recently were graduated in a class of 58 from a hospital volunteers course. The girls ore Toms River High School students. A new class will form in 1964. Golden Color and Allure of 1964 Swinging to Healthy New Look darned success I have ever had in my 30 years operating PXs', as a lieutenant colonel in charge of one big FX put it Sales soar dizz on the stag Bridge Shdnwold South dtalrr Neither side vulnerable NORTH 2 7 5 0 7 2 A 0 I WEST FAST A A I I 7 A I0 5 10 0 4 0 10 0 9 I 10 7 4 9 6 SOUTH A 4 A 9 I 2 0 A 6 I 2 South 1 9 'Wm North Fist 14 )9 Pki 4 aii ri Openini lend OK i Wall Township.

2. Mr. and Mrs Nathan Fish- 3. Dick Winerman, Riadley Beach, and Herman Menrher, West Long Branch. 4.

Mrs. Whitton Bierach, Asbury Park, and Mrs. Herman Member, West Iing Branch. West End Bridge Club Dee. II.

I1 North-South 1. Rrrnard Tost, New Shrews-hurv, and Bert Pickover, Middle- 2. Mr. and Mrs. Cary Fishman Wsnamassa.

Orean Township. 3. Mr. and Mrs. Albert Rumson.

Fast-West 1. Miss Ruth Schncll, West Al- lenhiirst, Township, and Mrs. Relic Klein, West I-ong Branch. 2. Mrs.

Mary Anne Polirastro and Mrs. Soma ray, I.inrrntt, Middletown Township. 3. Miss Carol Shrews bury, and William F.sherg, Inng Branch, IVY :1 new lipsticks, powder, foundation cream, and eye makeup, and rouge to high light the cheek bones. Out are the pale face, the pale heavy lips, the dark smudgy eyes, the platinum hairdos, l.i a small bright clear lips, golden complexion tints, glowing checks, and horizontal instead of slanting eyes.

To get down to specifics, since you may want to practice up a bit before the important New Year's party1: Choose Golden Tone ruffed and led a spade to makein. F.lberon. l-ong Branch 1 Mi Some of my friends sit with one foo tucked up under them. Our furniture is very light in color and shows every mark. Must 1 sit in silence while my furniture is being ruined, or can I bring it to the attention of the offender, and if so, how? TV only thing I can sug gest is that you keep a piece of material handy and when you see one of your guests put her foot on youi furniture say, "Let me put this under you because that chair is a perfect nuisance and shows every mark." Whenever I am served a whole slice of meat, I always cut it all up before beginning to eat.

1 think it is simplest to do this lather than cut a piece of meat, put thj knife down, switch the fork to the left hand to eat the meat, and then go through the same motions again for every piece oi meat. I have been told that to cut up a whole slice of meat ai one time is not good manners ana that each piece should be cut as eaten. May I please have your opinion? To cut two or three pieces at a time would be quite all right, but to cut up a whole slice before beginning to eat is not good table manners. When someone calls on the telephone and asks to speak to John Smith, is it good manners for John Smith to answer, My brother always answers in this manner and I think it is very abrupt and impolite. What is your opinion? In business, "Speaking" is quite correct, but when answering at home, "This is he" or "This is John Smith" is best form, 1 am going lo be married in, church and we plan to have a reception following in the church auditorium.

We are trying to keep the cost of the weddig down. A relative has a marvelous hi-fi and a large collection of dance records which she says I can borrow. Would it be proper to have this type of music or must we hire an orchestra? Live music would of course be best, but if you cannot afford to hire an orchestra and the reception is to be informal, there is no reason why you may not have records. My husband and I would like to have open house on New Year's Day. Would it be proper to write the invitations at the bottom of our Christmas cards? Writing the invitations at the bottom of your Christmas cards would be quite all right.

I would like to know the proper way to refer to a woman with whom I have been going for eight months. She is in her early 40s and it doesn't sound right to refer to her as my "girl friend," and as we are not engaged I cannot call her my fiancee. Would it be proper to say "lady "Lady friend" is not in good taste. Simply refer to her as a friend or by her name, Golden Agrrs Given Parly at AslWy Park ASBURY PARK The Shore Woman's Club gave the Golden Age Club of the Westside Community Center a Christmas party and beef dinner recently at the center. Mrs.

William H. Crawford was chairman. sure of two spades and a dia mond in addition to hi own tnimp trick. Good Start The situation la quite different if South gets off to a good start by refusing the first trick. Sou.h can win the second diamond and is then in no danger if he loses a later trick to West.

Mrs. Wallac Van Siclen sits besida the driftwood she has decorated wilh pomsettiai lo mokt a bright holiday decoration in the corner of their living room. Ornamental Driftwood Arroiif a Unmo Tiornr 1. If you use iiiwwii fcnva a koiuici limn, ill with golden 3 Wear Bright Llpstirk By MARLA TURNER Women's Service PARIS New Year's ve parties this year will show the woman-in-the-know with a bright new golden look. "The 1964 look is a revolution," declared Monsieur Effatan, gray-haired high stylist who is frequented by many of France's top comediennes.

"Such a revolution happens but teldom. The pendulum has swung completely away from the Oriental influence, away from the slanting eyes, bouffant hairdo, and pale faces of the Japanese geisha girls. "Half a world away it has swung to the golden, vibrant beauty of fashionable young skiers Just off the sunny slopes." The golden color and the allure of 1964 are totally different from the night-club pallor of '63. The healthy new look is entirely in harmony with this winter's high booti, turtle-necked sweaters, and glowing dress colors. Offers Some Hints However, there is nothing casual or sporty about this new look.

For those who find it difficult to get out for a brisk walk in the sun and snow, here are some hints given by Monsieur Effatan to accomplish it. You will need a good mirror; Declarer leads a trump to theunwn Tnwnshin. HINTS FROM HELOISE colonel continued. "Letting the men shop alone with only the salesgirls is just the right formula tor ringing up the largest aaies. I His Statement Confirmed This can be confirmed readily on any stag shopping night at the Army's big shopping center here.

Most of the men, once inside and after a quick cautious I around, head for the counters with i firm strides. I A father and son head for the perfume counter with identical jWt -hand-in-nocket pose. "Let's get her cologne," says son. "Nn, II want to get her perfume," announces father. I "Well, I don't know anything almut perfume, you deride," son tells father.

i At the perfume counter, the I father, a master sergeant, sayi tentatively to a tall blonde salesgirl, "I'd like some perfume," "What kinH?" "Well, I don't know." "If it's fur a sister or mother," says the girl, "we make but if it's for a wile or girl friend, you pick it. We can't take the responsibility." Second Topular Glfl Perfume buying tends to be deadly serious. But lingerie, the second most popular gift selection, is bought with grins, blushes, and attempts at humor. "I-ook at this," said a captain to a friend, holding high a flim-sie black nightie with gold trim, Then the rapta made his purchase. It white and sed.ile.

Men buying lingerie Usually lack information about, sixes. "She's 30'Something," a major told the salesgirl. After patrolling the dress department, a civilian Army employe complained, "This is getting me down," and he left the Salesgirls much prefer lo serve jthe men. "They are much easier than women," a department man- ager reported There are no complaints and nn problems." 1 fine young soldier, meanwhile, as trying In flirt ith a sales- cii f'i hi reshape the eyebrows, especially near the nose, 6. Eyelid5.

Again the color accent should be a light gold instead of the old greens and blues. The light golden tones make the face look younger, the eyes brighter. 7. Eyelashes, fnstead of brown or black try using violet or chestnut for a brighter, warmer look. Brunettes can wear the violet mascara during the day.

Blondes can use the violet in the evenings but they will find a reddish ft. F'nally, for the lips, find a lipstick that is clear and bright. Blondes can use a lipstick with a hint of mauve in it. For it can have just a hint of orange. But in neither case should the color be orange or mauve, or the pale colors of last summer.

Make up the mouth to look small, clearly outlined, and natural. And now. counsels Monsieur Effatan, if you have followed these sirmle directions, your husband will marvel at your r.ew srarkle and look of well beinj. If vou're single well, Leap Year may change that, too. Taping before pouring in a dash of hot water.

This makes a paste and prevents lumps when poured into the milk. For those who tenderize round steak by pounding it I put flour on top of the meat before pounding it and find that the flour absorbs the valuable juices that otherwise would be lost by tenderizing without it. Besides it makes the steak bettor. Martha Dear Heloise: For your readers with little children who hale to take a bath and get tired of doing so, try adding a little food coloring to their bath water and see the renewed interest when you add "do you want a pink or a blue bath i tonight?" I Mrs. A.N.

Whitney This is just about the cutest 1 idea I have ever heard. I tried it on a niece and it works. One word of caution. It only takes a few drops of food coloring so, do not pour a whole bottle in and dye your child. However would you get it off? Love.

Heloise Send correspondence to: Heloise, Readers' Service, Asbury Park Press, Press Plaza, Asbury Park, N.J, Easy Way lo Fix 'bff (' Hmir, 'III Chrislmos, 9 30 0 m. to 9 pm. Hoily, except SnturHoy "c0f 4 IT'S CHRISTM AS-AROUND-THL-WORLD kinK an'i returns a trump to try a unesse witn tne lacs, as tne cards lie, this fimsse wins and South easily takes the rest of the tricks. South would still be safe even! if the trump finesse failed, West would be unable to get the lead lo his partner. At best West could rash the ace of spades: and if he failed to take it at once, he would ift jj Dally Question As dealer, you hold: A 7 10, 10, 10 7 4 ,1.

What do you say? Answer: Bid one spade. You have 12 points in high rards and 2 points for the excellent distribution. The total is enough for a sound opening bid. Thursday Night Open Duplicate Bridge TVr. 12, 1.1 1.

Rutger Stirling, Ocean drove, and Charles Stein, West Belmar, VFVT Still Rrcfivinp Parlv Hfsrrvalion MATAWAN vatinns for adults onlv are sti available for the New Year's Eve party planned by the veterans of Foreign Wars, Post 4745. Richard Pavlik and His Rlue Boys will provide the music for dancing starting at 10 p.m. George Brenon is general chairman. Plating Refinhhing Co. SS WINER NEPTUNE CITY FftoipKt 3 3501 rarsiDiziiiTui itiuf Tzzrz I IV MAIIMI MAtWAM Wfjlk Mill M'ltWAM lHft Hf COmiwaM I i i choose one overtones.

2. Using a light roug'i is good draw it across thu cheek bones and apply light'y on the temples, making sure that it is well blended in. 3. Then pat on a slightly gold- en-toned powder, us.ng a little darker tone if you sre nrunctte. 4.

Now for the eyes. Using a chestnut-colored pencil draw a thin line from the insidj of the eye, along the upper lid to shout a quarter of an inch beyond the outside of the eyes. Eyebrows Are Straight 5. Eyebrows. These, too should appear to be in as straight a line as possible.

No upward curving brows. It may be necessary to Dear Heloise: If you will keep penny jxt cards and a pencil or fountain pen next to the radio and TV when a free offer is made, or a contest announced that you think you can win, you can jot down the address immediately on the card. How many times have I thought of the perfect answer later, only not to have the address. Mrs. MHC Letter of Laughter Dear Heloise: If you keep bar soap in your chest of drawers to get that clean smell on your husband's clothes and use your husband's sandpaper to sand the little knots off of your sweaters, would you please tell us what you do for your husband? Nosey I love him.

It took two decades to train this one I haven't got enough time left in my busy life to train another.) Besides, he's the sweetest there is And he puts up with me. Heloise Dear Heloise: When making hot cocoa for the kiddies' breakfast, I put a spoon of sugar in with a spoon of the powdered cocoa and stir it first -tfi i i ff jJ Lif 'IT and Mrs. Wallace Van Siclen, Oik lawn Rd. The piece originallv about 10 feet, was found by the Van Siclen near Sandy Hook, Wiile they were boating three summers ago. lowed it home.

At first it marie an ornamental addition to their patio. When the holidays approached, ir. van aicien orinen noies in i the wood, which he had rut to a more manageable length, and inserted plastic poinsetlias in them. It made an unusual corner display. Just for fun, for the two chil- dren, he also took a backyard many pronged branch, coated it white, cut it to table size, and hung balls of many colors on it.

This aooears yearly on the dining room table. He refers to it as his 'bauble' tree. tl An Artist Mr-c Van CiUn I i in, ii, nn ntn.M hum former art teacher, does a number of arrangements for the house combining figurines and greens. Mr. Van Siclen is an account executive with Merrill, Lynch, Pierce.

Fenner and Smith, 'au- Vnrlr TV. f-imili, vtn 'Mr ago from West Orange. Holv Namr lo Hold Family Yule Parly ASBURY PARK The annuai family Christmas party sponsored by the Mount Carmol Holy Name Society will be held at 4 p.m. tomorrow in the School Auditorium. There will be entertainment by the school children, refreshments will be provided, and gifts for the children will be ex- jenangeo Quick reference to reliable craftsmen Directory of Services, classifier section.

hum I or i A CUT for WitK Best I I i Mary Louise Lochiood Bride of Eatontown Man iJ CERTIFICATE Any denomination 4 Kl 515 Cookmon Avenue, Asbury Park FAIR HAVEN A seven-foot piece of driftwood is one of the most important yuletide decora-! tion leatures at the nome ot Mr. Salvation Army Lists Services ASBURY PARK Commis-ioner William Davidson, eastern territorial commander of the Salvation Army, and Mrs. Davidson will conduct morning anrl evening services at the Citadel, 510 Grand at 10:45 a.m. and 7:30 p.m. tomorrow.

Christmas music will be sung and played by the Cita del Senior Band and Song-ters di rected by Bandmaster Alfred Swenarton including "Hallelujah" from Judas Maccabacus by Handel, "Silent Night" a paraphrase by Erik Leidzcn. "The Star in the East" by Evangeline Booth. The Junior and Young Pennies Choirs will be directed by Mrs. George KtMer. Offertory music by pianist Mrs.

Grace Swenarton and organist Mrs. Dianna Robinson. Commissioner Davidson will preach In both services. Sunday evening the hand will play "Christmas in Europe," and the Soncsters will sine a cantata bv Johann Sebastian Bach, "To t. Us a Child Is Given." Assisting the Davidsons will be Maj.

and Mrs. Cecil Hodgson, ('apt. Eun'ce Atwood, William Savage, and Thomas Maier. er-in-law of the bridegroom, was best man. A reception was held al the home of the bride's rjarents.

Thev left for a wedding trip to New York They will reside in Deal. Is Hospital Olrtltion The bride was graduated from Keyport School and Juniata College, Huntingdon, where she received a bachelor of science degree in home economics. She is employed as Dietitian at Filkin Hospital, Neptune. The bridegroom was graduated from Long Branch School He is employed hy Fischer Baking Asbury Park. Girls' Kobe Holiday Priced 399 Assorted Colors, white snd pastell.

A tricot fsbrtc of 100 Estron Acetate. Hnd washable. Sizes 7 to 14. in Slrffl Park. i Open F.vm.

tfF to 9 P.M. v. is I i i 1 'TIL CHRISTMAS BOTH STORES OPEN EVERY NKiHT By HELOISE CRUSE Dear Heloise: When the tapes on your Venetian blinds start ripping and falling apart, instead of having them rre-taped, which is quite expensive, I buy hem facing at my dime store (this is ordinarily used when we let down a hem and must have a facing) and flue it to the old tape. In our living room, I bought 1-inch wide velvet ribbon in pele pink which is the co'or of our living room decor, i glued Ms on and it even worked better and was far prettier. An the bedrooms, I usud grov pain ribbon lH inches wide to match the color of the blinds.

All of this hem facing may be glued on or it could oe hand sewn. I find it far better to tackle this job before the original blind tape tears in two or rots. All so easy to keep clean too. Just take a damp sponge and dust. Pauline Putnan Dear Heloise: I have found that when making a meat sauce the meat browns more evenly and mixes easily with my green pepper and onions, which I am cooking in the skillet, if I use my potato masher to break up the meat.

is especially effective when one must get supper in a hurry and It is necessary to thaw the meat first. Meat aw to the stage where you can easily break it apart with your hands will thaw quickly and mix evenly if the Jotato masher Is used with gentle ut firm pressure. Mrs. CLM Health Capsule kuAT 4H0ULP V3U PO IP IrOj pnP vou lack iron in OUR 0LOOP 2 TH MEAN Y3tto BEEM LOSING BiOCP COMfctfMiRk TO FINP JC Wfr ANP WHV VOU'RE 0LOOP. him the fun of selecting hi mm fift the rolnr, the $ize, the ilyle he prefer).

Our Ctift Cerlijirnlrt mme in any denomination fijt-hnxeti and wrapped, if yon Irish. KEYPORT Miss Mary Louise Lockwood, daughter of Mr Mrs. Edward E. Lockwood, 74 Elizabeth and Peter Maw.a, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph Maz-za, Rte. 35, Eatontown, were wed Dec. 14. The Rev. John H.

Sharpe, pastor, officiated at the double ring ceremony at the Reformed Church. Carries While Gardenia The bride was given in marriage by her father, She wore a white satin brocade suit and white fur headpiece. She carried a white gardenia. Mrs. William Russo, here, was matron of honor for her sister.

She wore a gold satin street-length dress and matching headpiece. She wore a corsage of white pompons and yellow roses. Robert Sncll. Eatontown, broth BIG DISCOUNTS OH FURNITURE CARPETS DRAPERIES FABRICS Iverv Dey hUk Devt lif ttlcctienel llf Senet! EASY TO REACH From Garden State Pork-way, take exit 13S to Grand Avt. Straight ahead through Rahway, Routt 1.

Continue mtle to Koot Wnrehoui Store. rahway off RTE. 1 f. hi vv if X. I xHkJ i a MS-fJi'l Valued l- WishM of Or Use Your Easy Charge Account mimi ii i mm i DONATION TO HOSPITAL-The James F.

Ackerman Federation to Filkin Hospital. Neptune, has donated a check for $4,000 to the hospital's Intensive care wing, which is 60 per cent completed. The money was raised at the federation's annual Fitkin Country Store. Mrs. Kenneth Creveling, Neptune, general chairman, presented the check to David V.

Carter, hospital administrator, as they look over blueprints of the new wing. (Press Photo) THE TINE CHOP NEXT DOOR TO THE PRESS 613 Mattison Avenue, Asbury Park 911 Street. Relmar.